Online Dating Techniques

You got the brilliant, attractive killer profile. You have posted the best pictures of yours and are getting reply in hundreds. You have selected the hot girl you want to be with for the time being. But how do you recognize whether this is the girl for you? Here are some tips.

Online dating is about selling yourself. Its not only you who sold yourself to others out there. They have done it too. That’s why you are chatting with this woman now. She sold ‘her’ to you. Its hard to accept it but that’s the truth. To know who she really is we have to take off her ‘mask’ that she created on the profile. She want wear a label on her stating whether she is a ‘Sex maniac’ or a ‘Gold digger’. You have to find this out. Don’t think that they will give everything on a gold tray. You have to ‘earn’ this in the hard way. Coz you are not the only guy in the world!

Now don’t go and tell her point blank that you want to know who she really is! That would be the dumbest thing that you could do.  Initiate small talk with her. You need to impress her. Words are everything you have. But use them carefully.

A good way of knowing what she really is knowing her views on men in general. This will help to avoid you the manholes and traps on the road to her heart! Avoid the mistakes that others do. First learn from this woman. Don’t be ashamed to learn from women. This might help you a lot in future, even with other women.

Ask her about her views on Online dating. She will tell you if she had any bad experience. Learn & don’t do these. Use your commonsense and look for deeper meaning of her thoughts that is hidden beneath the words.

Now comes the million dollar question. Ask her about her previous relationships and what caused her to breakup. This question will provide you with a wealth of information. If she puts the blame fully on the guy or herself its time to move on to the next on the list. But if she says that the breakup was through mutual consent, voila! you have hit gold. Move on, but exercise caution on every step you take.

Remember, if you want the right answer you have to ask the right questions. Ask the wrong question and you get the wrong answer!