The Difference Between Online Dating and Clubs

So you want to find a date online and you never have done this before? You have lots of experience in picking up a woman at a bar. Be assured that your offline experience is useless in online dating. What most men do is, look at the picture of the woman in profile and want even bother to read her profile.  It easy to determine the person have not read the profile.  When the girl finds out she will straight away delete you message.

So how did the girl get to know that you haven’t read the her profile? Read on and you will find out.

You must address the girl in concern from both the subject line and the body of the message. Subject line is also important as this what she sees first. If the girl gets lots of messages and you do not address her directly on the subject line you are doomed. She will not even look at your message.

So if the subject lines with common ‘Hi’, ‘Hey’, ‘Hello’, ‘Hi there’, ‘You’re cute’, etc are subjected to deletion.

Now think! Is there any standard opening lines which you use in the body of every message you send. Then be assured that every guy does. That means most of these messages get deleted even without getting opened.

When you need to get attention of a girls there are some message rule which you must adhere to. Never tell a girl how sexy or cute she is and also do not make any comment which have sexual undertones on your first message. You said that you have lot of experience picking out girls from bar. But we are sure that you never tell a girl that you what to have sex with her or that she is sexy babe as soon as you talk to her!

Read her profile carefully. You will know what to she want to hear.  Then the chances become higher that of receiving a response from her because you have conveyed your message well, the way she wants it to be.